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Real Relationships Sacred, Spiritual, and Sexual
Today there is much confusion about relationships, whether it be romantic, working family or spiritual associations. One thing that is certain and we have come to see is that there is definitely confusions. Many people are becoming so concerned because they have been single for a number of months and in some cases years. Many are unwilling to accept nothing but the “perfect” situation in which to have a close relationship. They are looking for the “perfect person, perfect body, perfect mind and generous heart and many times in just that order. The truth is that with all the mixed messages that are received on the universal plane the higher beings, angels and guardians are uncertain of what we earthlings want. The message here is that we need to go back to square one. The heart, and learn to listen to the heart.
When there is joy and happiness in the connection there is love. When there is doubt, fear and insecurities there is loss. Many have forgotten how to listen to the heart. They have been hurt and they have put a wall around their heart. This wall has been very difficult to break through. Even though the heart desires, and needs to feel a connection completely to the heart of another being to experience a satisfying earth life.. Even though there have been agreements that have been made and broken out of fear, fear of pain; fear of loss.
The mind of man remembers the past incarnations when their body’s were beautiful and their loving hearts were free to experience life in joy. Before the pain and hurt of the emotional body and the doubts and insecurities of the conscious mind took over.
Recall the feelings of when before meeting your first 'love' the love from which you came was the love of your mother; unconditional. Throughout the evolution of mankind, we have watched our fathers mistreat or abuse our mothers; or the opposite situation has also been present. The sacred side of the spiritual union and the earthly marriage has in many situations been in a state of vanishing or disappearing from existence for more than four decades in rapidly multiplying numbers.
Why? We ask ourselves. When the typical American family survived for many years are we having such difficulty finding the ‘right’ relationship.. Is it perhaps, because we are in a state of reaching equality of the soul in relationships, whether the partners are male and female or male and male or female and female. The underlying goal seems to be finding harmony, equality and balance among all beings. .We must first remember that we came here to be happy. Regardless of everything we are to love everyone, as we love ourselves, because we are all of one energy. The true reason of our lives and our purpose is love and truth. In relationships it is not for one to control the other, or for one to be the boss or leader. The purpose of the relationship is to learn to share, to care and to honor the life and purpose of each other in equality and without judgment. This can not be done with fear, insecurities and the repetition of past habits. We must learn that people do not change and you can change no other being but yourself. The only way people change from old ways and poor habits and choice is they learn to create the change at the soul level. Then, when they desire to make these changes the possibilities of the changes becoming a permanent part of the earthly life are great. Know also that no one can be expected to or expect to take on the responsibility for the work of another. All ONE can do is be there for support, and for balance when the soul of one is struggling and growing for any specific reason or purpose. When two souls are struggling within a relationship in fear of failure or fear of loss at the same time. They can find will themselves doing two jobs at once. The job of controlling themselves and perhaps of trying to control the other as well is nowadays like trying to push a rock up a hill. It is possible then they try to find ways of persuasion or manipulation to make things go their way. The best suggestion or solution would be to take the time to simply with draw back from the |