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Do you find yourself constantly creating self imposed limitations; feeling that nothing you ever do is good enough; feelings of lack because your are always struggling with financial situations and feeling broke.  May I ask you now when?  where? and what, in your life and your thinking has caused you to feel this way about yourself and your life?  Let us take the next step in this processing. 

Look back to your childhood:  How did your parents; grand parents and extended family deal with money and finances?  If you went to the grocery store with your mother did she let you buy everything you wanted., or did she always say, no, when you ask for something?  Or did she just occasionally allow you to have something as a reward or award for something good that you had done or accomplished?  

Were the kids in your class dressed better than; equal to or less than you? In your teenage years were you always able to go to all of the social functions; sports events and have new and stylish clothes for all of; part of; or always made to wear hand-me-down type of clothes.

 Did you upon graduation from high school or college certain that what you were doing as a career what you had since early childhood doing what you always wanted to.  Or, were you doing what your parents, teachers, or someone else made you feel like you had to or should do? 

 

When you are clear on your answer to this question I wish to focus your attention to positive directions and solutions.  First, of all when we are growing up many of us are not or were not allowed to make our own choices.  For those of us growing up in the fifties and sixties our mothers did most everything for us and our fathers made most of the finances, income providing and basically many women were made to feel like martyrs.  Because that is how society in general operated for centuries.  But then we came to the seventies, eighties and nineties as life progressed mothers and women began to take on new responsibilities as part time jobs and still having to maintain their homes, children etc., Men began to loosen up with the necessity to provide totally being shifted off of them.  Hence much has changed in many areas but the fears and insecurities and value systems have also changed.  Therefore ultimately we are the product of today’s society, but when you can come to the realization that ultimately it doesn’t matter who you were in your youth, unless your parents are still paying your bills it is who you are now and what you will become in your future.

To create positive change and to focus on the positives (make a list of what is good in your life you want to continue),  and your personal power to create changes and transform or transmute the negatives (make a list of all the negatives you have in your life, or  what you no longer desire to do) , that our live can begin to become what we truly are and want.

Our ultimate life purpose whether we are a healer, psycho-therapist, medical doctor, lawyer, waitress, engineer, teacher or nurse, regardless of the career or profession we are in (provided that we have chosen it for ourselves and are not doing it because of some other parties desire for us), we have to constantly find ourselves happy with our lives on a day to day, moment to moment  basis. 

Happiness should be at the top of the list, and your true own happiness should be sub-topics below that. 

If you truly desire change in your life, to get out of feeling like you are all of; or part of; or any thing less than you are truly capable of being.  When you can make a commitment to yourself, to open up to the energies of your higher self, regardless of your programming prior to this time, and  when you can truly take charge of yourself., and your accomplishments, in the next few years could truly amaze yourself. 

The first step in invoking change is to ultimately decide for yourself what you really want.  When you know your truth, and refuse to allow any type of limitation, or self imposed restriction to remain in your life, and make a commitment with yourself at the soul level , nothing can truly block you or limit you on a permanent basis ever again. 

Simply begin with desire, visualization and in the proper time with the proper dedication you ultimate highest potential will begin to manifest into the physical for you, too.  Process very slowly, do not allow yourself to become stagnant or to feel blocked for more than a day.  Do not expect over night results, that rarely ever happens, but it does happen.  If something hasn’t worked after proper timing, make adjustments; refocus and instead of totally deleting energies; add others; perhaps the timing for something to materialize could be longer than you had originally allowed.  If it is not a total negative, simple add something new and keep taking one-step-at-a- time.  Just don’t ever quit!

 

Blessings, Peace and remember we are all ONE!  When you lend assistance and positive light to the life of another ONE of us you are helping the whole of the ONE which we all are.